Moxie’s Matches
A consent-first dating app for the swinger, non-monogamy, and lifestyle community — browse nearby members, like and match, chat in-app or over Telegram, and travel with your profile.
About us
Moxie’s Matches is built for the ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, swinger, and curious. We wanted a dating app that treats this community the way it deserves — consent-first, privacy-obsessed, and free of the judgment you find elsewhere. It’s a place to meet real people near you or wherever you’re headed, on your terms — and one that gives back.
You have to be let in
No sliding into DMs — you can only message once you’ve both liked each other. Add intentional, capped likes (no like inflation), plus the power to hide, block, or report anyone, anytime.
Real, verified people
A quick selfie confirms members are who they say they are. Verified profiles earn a ✓ green check you can actually trust.
Your privacy, protected
We never sell or share your data. Your photos and information are used for one thing only: helping you find genuine connections.
Built for the lifestyle
Match as a single or a couple, set play preferences and relationship style, link your other lifestyle-site profiles, and switch on Travel Mode for trips.
A passion project, not a profit project
We’re here because we love this community and want to see it thrive — not to cash in on it. That’s why we give 25% of our net proceeds to the American Sexual Health Association, working toward reliable, stigma-free sexual health for everyone.
Get started
Most of the app is free, try it in your browser. To see everything it does — grab the mobile app for live location and photo verification.